New diary published on Scarletblue.com.au

Most couples have a variety of differing sexual preferences; from kink and fetish to time of day and frequency difference is normal.Differences only become a problem if you avoid them.The struggle becomes negotiating and getting creative with compromising around differences.
If you are too busy to have sex there is a problem.Make time or accept that you will not be having sex.This can’t be a unilateral decision in your relationship.Collaborate,negotiate and schedule sex.
Many couples have absolutely no clue what their partner likes or worse what they don’t like! Why? Maybe because they never talked about it or maybe it’s become to scary to address.Either way if you don’t know how to turn your partner on and your unwilling to have the conversation then you will not be having sex.
Conflict ,contempt,passive aggression,unacknowledged imbalances,disappointments and past sexual trauma can be a sexual disaster.This is when sexual withholding and avoidance is an unconscious relational expression of I’m angry,hurt,lonely,bored or just plain sick of the sight of you.
Feel like this describes your life and you can’t fix or solve the problem?
While you are pondering what to do or not to do come and visit me and have the kind of sex you like with no pressure or recriminations just a mind blowing sexual experience to ease the pain,hurt and bewilderment.